I'm still at the beginning of our honeymoon, but as I promised, I left some scheduled posts for all of you lovely ladies!
Over on one of the other sites that I am a featured blogger bride, I received an 'Anonymous' comment regarding my previous post about the 11th hour wedding guests and the B list that we had for our guest list.
So regarding my post, here is the comment that was left and my response:
I honestly think there is nothing tackier then a "B" list. You either wanted them at the wedding or you didn't.
April 14, 2010 9:38 AM
Born to be Mrs. Beever said...
I honestly think there is nothing tackier than people who don't respect people's budgets and size limitations. Wouldn't it be nice if I had the money to be able to invite the 400 people that I could have easily included and WANTED at my wedding? But unfortunately, some of us are not so fortunate as to have unlimited funds.
If it were up to me, I would have invited every person I've met since I was in grade school..because I am the type of loving person that includes anyone and everyone and *wants* them all there and celebrating with us. But that is just not realistic in today's economy and such.
The one thing I've learned in my life is to recognize and respect that everyone has their own abilities, opinions and ways of doing things. There is absolutely no reason at all to degrade, judge or name call just because you don't agree with something.
All you needed to say was "Personally, I don't think I'd ever be able to have a B list but I am glad it worked out for you."
But I guess you don't have that kind of 'tact,' especially coming from Anonymous commenters - lovely.
UGH! Have you had any unfortunate comments or anonymous comments that left you frustrated and annoyed? How did you handle it?
2 days ago