Thursday, April 29, 2010

What a way to end a honeymoon...

It's me and Mr Fix It's last full day here in Bali.  We head home tomorrow afternoon.

And I have been checking e-mail and my blog real quick almost every single morning of our honeymoon.

Well today, I got the e-mail I didn't want to come...our friend who was staying at our house with our dog, Kuta (named after the beach where we are staying here in Bali) informed me that our pup passed away last night while we were gone.

I totally started crying when I read the e-mail.  And now I hav to decide if I should tell Mr Fix It now and ruin the last day and a half of our honeymoon or wait until we are on our way home to tell him.

He is going to be devastated...and I am so conflicted.  We knew he was not doing good since we found out he had a terminal heart condition two months ago, but we prayed he'd make it til we got home and at least have a few months with him.

Please pray for us, this is not the best way to end our honeymoon...but at least our dog is now at peace and not in pain.

It will be the worst thing in the world for us to walk into our empty home now for the first time.  I can't even imagine it.  Thanks for all of your encouragement and support...it means so much.

23 comments:

Cupcake Wedding said...

I am sorry for your lost.

PartyPlannerGal said...

Oh, Stacey, oh my gosh! This is so horrible. I am so so so sorry for your loss - you know Mr. Fix-it best, so I think your heart will tell you how to handle it. Personally I would want to know, but my fiance would want to wait. Good luck, and you are in my prayers.

Chic 'n Cheap Living said...

So sorry to hear this. Kuta is indeed in a better place. Like Party Planner Gal said, you know how Mr. Fix it would want it so do what you think is best.

Bowie Bride said...

I'm so so sorry to hear that, Stacey. Big *hugs* to you.

Sarah Ann said...

Oh no! That is awful. I'm so sorry. If I were you I'd skip telling him at least until later in the day. Otherwise the poor guy is going to be really upset and it won't be a good final day. But then again if you think he'd like to know right away maybe that's best. Either way, let him know gently. For some reason men seem to have a real soft spot when it comes to pets. My father only ever cries when a family dog dies (Well ok, other than PEOPLE of course!). =[

Ghenet said...

Oh gosh, I'm so sorry to hear about Kuta. :o(

kc said...

I'm so, so sorry for your loss.

SG said...

I'm really sorry to hear this...losing a pet is one of the hardest things. I can't even imagine. I don't know Mr. Fix It so I can't really advise on what to do but I wish you both the best over the next few days. *hugs*

Em said...

I am so so so sorry for your loss. I have no advice, only lots of hugs via the internet. You will know how to handle Mr. Fix It best and whatever you choose will be the right choice. The one thing that gave me peace when we put our dog down was the quote "All dogs go to heaven." I hope you are able to find peace in it as well. Again, sending you lots of love and hugs from halfway across the world.

Ms. Wedding Crasher said...

So sorry :(

Jillreigh said...

I'm so sorry to hear about Kuta. *hugs*

megan marie said...

I am so, so sorry for your loss.

Davanie said...

I'm so sorry! Losing a pet is so hard. *hug*

Chocolate Lover said...

Oh Stacey! I am so so sorry for you and Mr. Fix It! You will be in my thoughts! Like the other ladies said, your heart will know what the best thing to do is.

Heather said...

Oh my gosh, I am so incredibly sorry. I know your sweet pup is running pain free at the Rainbow Bridge with all the other loved, lost pets. Take care.

PMerr said...

Oh no! It's so hard to go through this, especially while you're on your honeymoon! I'm so sorry for your loss, and I know you'll know the best way to handle it.

Bicoastal Bride said...

I am so sorry for your loss, Stacey. I’m sorry it had to end this way, while you were away. Please know that you and John will be in my thoughts.

Nicole said...

oh my...my heart goes out to you guys... did you tell him? I couldn't keep that from my husband...it would just come right out...i would think you guys need to talk about it...you both are in my prayers...

my husband said he would want to know..what a situation to be in... im soo sorry !!!

Heather Lopez said...

Oh no I am soooo sorry to hear that. That is a horrible way to end the honeymoon. By now Im sure youve told your husband I hope yall are both doing better.

Nicole-Lynn said...

Aww! I'm so sorry to hear that. I don't know what I'd do if I was in the same situation! I hope you two are doing better... so so sorry!

Gaynor said...

So sorry to hear that; hope you are both doing ok. x

Mrs T said...

What a hard decision that must have been. So sorry about poor Kuta. x

Katie said...

Oh no....I am so so sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you guys...that is such a hard thing to go through.

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