I remember a while back posting some kind of to-do list on my blog and I mentioned that it was not really for any of you but moreso as a journaling opportunity for me as I look back on this blog years from now.
And I have seen many other brides do it, too. I thought it was a good way to keep track of our progress for myself. I also noticed other brides who post their task lists usually ask "Am I missing anything?"
Honestly, with 54 days to go until the wedding, it's becoming more stressful than helpful and so now I skim over those type of posts. Mostly because there is no way in hell I am going to be able to think about whether or not someone else is forgetting something - do any of you honestly pull out your own to-do lists and perform a side by side comparison to fellow bloggers' lists to let them know what they're forgetting?
Besides, all I end up feeling is stress about my own to-do list and how there is still so much to do. It makes me physically nauseous to read these posts now.
So while I'm not knocking anyone who chooses to do this (since I am sure I'm in this category), I just wanted to vent about the stress and freak out mode that I enter when I click over to a fellow blogger bride's blog and see their updated to-do list...please forgive me if I don't comment or can't help you figure out what you're missing. It'll probably just make me think of something *I* am missing and stress me out.
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